Updates are in order, but where to begin?
Do I talk about the hospital rooms many hours were spent in, waiting for my
father-in-law to get better? The hours driving back and forth to town, hoping
that today was the day his fever would cease or that today was the day we would
have answers? The shuffling of children and their activities and their
schoolwork?
Or do I cut to the chase, and let you know that Bob is home, beginning the
slow recuperation of someone who has been at the hospital for 2 weeks. The
regaining of strength and energy. The healing of a kidney, burned by radio waves
to remove cancer. The slow leak of color back into his face.
Over here, life is at a stand-still. Over there, life flows on. Costumes must
be planned. A baseball game is played. A trip to College Station, groceries
bought, piano lessons, church activities, six-weeks tests.
There really is no proper place to begin, no definite ending. It all slides
together, eases from one reality to the next.